Tuesday, October 19, 2021

Being a better follower

 

Watch the sermon here:  SERMON VIDEO

This passage is primarily about:

The Kind of Men we are to NOT Follow!! (2-9)

This will be an ongoing thing until Jesus comes back. Paul is talking about people inside the church who claim to be followers of Jesus.

In Ephesus, some of them were certainly elders.


Today, it refers to many of the popular TV preachers (anyone on TBN), even some SBC pastors fall into this category.

No church is immune to this danger. 


These are things to NOT be.

This is the “anti-elder” list. The opposite of the qualifications in 1 Timothy 3:1-13.


For men will be lovers of self

They’re winsome

You’ll like them

They communicate well. 

They’ll make compelling arguments.

But they’re self-centered, and it spreads deep and reaches to every corner of a person. 


A. Lovers of Self

The summary characteristic.

his whole thing has invaded so much of our 

lovers of money - having money or things isn’t wrong, but do you love things? Or do you love God?

Boastful - Look what I have done!

Arrogant - I’m just a little better - a notch above

Revilers - insulting, slanderous,

disobedient to parents - always a bad thing

ungrateful - a lack of thankfulness

unholy - not consecrated to God

unloving - a hardhearted person.

irreconcilable - unwilling to be at peace with others

malicious gossips - greek: diabolos. Slander with evil intent

without self-control - Self controls is a fruit of the spirit.

without gentleness - again, it’s a fruit of the spirit rather than, not gentle.

without love for good - no interest in the good of those around you

treacherous - someone who will turn on you reckless - impulsive, rash, The opposite of wise, measured carefulness.

conceited - You’ll never convince them they’re being prideful about anything

lovers of pleasure rather than lovers of God,

A mindset. Their pursuits are all self oriented.

While we all struggle with these things to some degree, when you see them consistently, or they begin to be a pattern, there’s cause for concern.


Ultimately, these people are

B. Charlatan Christians

holding to a form of godliness, but having denied its power. 


They can wear the mask quite well. They have the form, but no substance

The Command is crystal clear

Keep away form such men as these


They’re dangerous because they

C. Prey & Draw Away

They prey on the spiritually weak


John MacArthur says it very well:

Just as wrong doctrine leads to wrong living, so can wrong living easily lead to embracing wrong doctrine.


When you get stuck in this trap, whether you’re leading or following, you’re always learning and never able to come to the full knowledge of the truth.

Spinning your wheels and never getting anywhere

Someone who’s goal is not your sanctification cannot lead you where you need to go. (Repeat)


But don’t despair…

Verse 9But they will not make further progress, for their folly will be obvious to all, just as theirs was also.

God ultimately will protect His church

He will hold on to His people.

When we’re focused on Him, passionately pursuing knowing Him and making Him known…

false teachers will become obvious.



The solution?

God’s plan for discipleship.

The Family - the foundation

The Church - God’s plan for every believer

A Mentor - you need to be discipled.

you are Timothy

Who’s your Paul?


BUT you followed my teaching, conduct, purpose, faith, patience, love, perseverance, persecutions, and sufferings…


How to Be a Better Follower

Physical Presence

You have to be in physical proximity. You can do some things at a distance when necessary, but only because the foundation has been laid with physical presence.

Mental Presence

You need to intellectually engage. Listen, think, and learn.

Spiritual Engagement

Your heart must be involved

The Holy Spirit is what enables/causes this


How can you be a better follower?


A. Theologically

Teaching - those worthy of following are teaching you. Are you following what they teach?

2. Practically

Conduct

What routines do you need to put in place? 


Purpose (focus, motivating passion)

Can you clearly articulate your purpose?

A fired up follower of Jesus Christ. Radically obedient to a passionate pursuit of knowing God and making Him known.


Faith - Faithfully serving the Lord

If you only follow when it’s convenient

You’re not following Jesus, you’re following self.


Patience - Are you a patient person? 

Staying calm when provoked or when misfortune comes your way.

Not complaining - not getting irritated

It’s more than an attitude.  It’s a determined way of life


Love - Do you genuinely deeply love people?
Is it obvious?

Perseverance - expanding on patience to include suffering


We can have a settled confidence in the Lord because:

What persecutions I endured, and out of them all the Lord rescued me!


We can trust in Him. 

So follow Him more closely every day. Find a mentor to help you follow Him better. Do all you can to help others follow Him as well. 


Soli Deo Gloria!
Pastor Rob


Monday, October 11, 2021

How to Be Useful to God


 If you didn't get a chance to watch the sermon, check out our YouTube channel. Here's the link:

Sermon Video


As you listen to the sermon, or after you've listened to it, here's a quick outline to help you remember and apply the passage:


The passage begins with a picture:

1. A Large House

The large house is the church. 


Gold and silver - the nice dishes - the ones on display

Vessels of honor - The ones you pull out for a dinner party


Wood and earthenware - The daily use vessels.

Vessels of dishonor - the one that’s in the bathroom.


The vessels are believers.

• Honor - faithful believers

Dishonor - unfaithful/compromising believers


We should aim to be vessels of honor. Useful to the Master. To be useful to the Master, you need to be sanctified.

A Guide to Usefulness

Usefulness begins with a Passionate pursuit of knowing God


2. FLEE & PURSUE (v. 22)

FLEE is a command. It should be the ongoing pursuit. Like a fugitive who never stops running.

Basic immaturity is in view here

When we’re less mature, we tend to focus on wealth,  power, having influence.

Ambition is often overemphasized.

Jealousy, envy and an argumentative spirit  fall into this category.


PURSUE has the same imperative force.

Pursue Righteousness - synonymous with obedience to God’s Word.


Pursue Faith(fulness)

Basic loyalty to God. An unwavering commitment to following Him.


Pursue Love

Agape love - a love that prioritizes the other person over yourself.


Pursue Peace

1. Peace with God

2. Peace with other Christians


Verse 22 concludes - with those who call on the Lord from a pure heart - a reminder toward unity.

The basic definition of discipleship is this: 

Helping one another follow Jesus better.


3. DISCERNMENT (v. 23)

Something that’s sadly lacking in many Christians today. (Basic spiritual maturity)


There are things that need to be filtered out. 

books you should avoid

preachers you should’t listen to

blogs/podcasts that not only not helpful

but harmful.


Discernment is necessary. 

Maturity precedes discernment. 

If it leads to a quarrel - avoid going down that path.


Reminder:

4. YOU’RE A SLAVE (v. 24-25)

These things are not optional for a slave. Slave applies to both Timothy and every believer.

the Lord’s slave must not be quarrelsome,


Instead of that: (another both flee and pursue)

Patient when wronged


Be kind to everyone. - this is certainly the opposite of quarrelsome. Spiritual maturity and humility are necessary


Able to teach

Reminding us about elders and their role in the Body, but this also applies to everyone. 

The idea is that we need to bring Scripture to bear on all situations. Chapter and verse is the first thing every time.


Patient when wronged

If you stay at any church for any length of time, you will be wronged at some point. You will also wrong someone eventually.


What do you do in that situation?

Be patient. Correct with gentleness.

Because: God has been, and is being abundantly patient with you. 


Read Colossians 3:12-15


Unforgiveness is just UNacceptable


Correction must be done in the right spirit, with the right heart attitude, or you’ll need correction yourself.


(Church discipline is certainly in view here)

The goal of discipline is discipleship. 

DISCIPLine. DISCIPLeship


4. The Aim: REPENTANCE (v. 25-26)

The hope of any correction, the hope anytime you’re corrected is repentance.

Principles for correction:

1. You cannot correct in self-righteousness. 

You must have compassion for them. It must be done in love and kindness with gentleness

It’s not about difference of opinion or preferences, but disobedience to Scripture.

Actual sinful behavior. 

Heart attitude is key: Humility must be the foundation 


2 - God Grants Repentance

It’s God that does the work in your heart, and in theirs. The Holy Spirit has to be at work. 

We can’t do this on our own


God Grants Repentance. It:

• Starts in the mind - with understanding

• Moves to the heart - acknowledgement - You own it.

• Leads to outward change. A new direction. A different attitude. Behaving differently.


3 - Full knowledge of the truth

God’s Word coming to bear on the situation.

If the error is a brother/sister wronging you, the gospel is the answer because without the work of Christ and His forgiveness, without the forgiveness that He extended to you, you would never extend that forgiveness to someone else. His forgiveness is the foundation for our forgiveness.


Let’s remain committed to digging deep into God’s Word and, through the power of the Holy Spirit, bring it to bear on all aspects of our lives!


Soli Deo Gloria!
Pastor Rob